Turn That Rut Around: The Power of Lists and Shared Dreams

Published on June 10, 2025 By Bobby Brennan
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A lively music festival crowd in Denmark, showcasing the joy of shared experiences.

Turn That Rut Around: The Power of Lists and Shared Dreams

Ever feel stuck? Like you're going through the motions, but the spark is gone? I know that feeling. It's a rut, and it can feel impossible to escape. But what if I told you the solution was surprisingly simple? For me, it started with a list. Not just any list, but a "30 by 30" list. The concept is straightforward: 30 things to achieve before I turned 30. It's a fantastic way to set goals and inject some excitement back into your life.

But here’s the magic ingredient, the secret sauce that transforms a good idea into a life-changer: friends. Sharing your list, your wildest dreams, makes them real. It transforms "someday" into "let's make this happen."

Unleash the Energy: Music Festivals & Shared Experiences

There's nothing quite like the energy of a music festival. Surrounded by friends, the music pulsating through you, it's a reminder of the power of shared experiences. These moments become the fuel for future adventures.

Distortion music festival in denmark

Embrace the Unexpected: New Zealand Adventures

Sometimes, the best memories are made when things don't go according to plan. A camper van trip through New Zealand, dressing up as hobbits – these are the spontaneous moments that add spice to life's journey.

Dressing up as hobbits in new zealand New zealand camper van adventures

The Joy of Spontaneity: Unexpected Trips

Some of my most cherished memories are from trips that weren't meticulously planned. The unplanned detours, the unexpected discoveries – these are the moments that truly make a journey unforgettable.

Unexpected trips with friends

Finding Peace and Connection: Relaxing Times

It's not all about adrenaline-fueled adventures. Sometimes, the most meaningful moments are the quiet ones, shared with friends. A peaceful fishing trip, surrounded by nature, is a reminder to slow down and appreciate the simple things.

Going fishing


The list of things I chose to work on was varied - the only thing in common is that each item captured my imagination and made me genuinely excited to complete! Big or Small putting goals on paper is a huge step in the right direction!

  • Going to the Rugby World Cup
  • Learning the Saxophone
  • Mountain Biking
  • Surfing
  • Camping
  • Traveling to New Zealand
  • Music Festivals
  • Japan

Notice the blend? Big, life-changing goals right alongside pure fun. That's the key. It's not just about ticking boxes; it's about creating unforgettable memories. Talking with my friends about them helped me learn about what they were passionate about and often was the catalyst to a fresh road trip or adventure!

The Power of Passion

Here’s what I've learned: talking about your passions is infectious. It sparks ideas. It creates momentum. Suddenly, learning the saxophone doesn't seem so daunting. That trip to Japan? Totally doable.

Big or small, talking about your passions can be a huge incentive to try new things and genuinely reinvigorate your life! It's about saying "yes" to new experiences, pushing your boundaries, and crafting a life that's rich and fulfilling. So, what are you waiting for? Grab some friends, make a list, and start turning those dreams into reality. What's on your list?

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